Most men act outside of their own nature. I used to think this problem was because of how females react. However, when I started traveling and noticed the same patterns being repeated, I began to understand. Men need to become more likable.
A girl’s body language is essential. When a guy stares at a female in a creepy way or locks eyes with her for an extended period, he has already lost her. Many men do not seem to understand this. You must first glance at the female for a few seconds before getting up and approaching her. Not all ladies will be interested in you. You should take risks, but the longer you play staring games, the worse your odds will become.
When I sit beside a guy, an attractive girl turns around and looks back in our direction. Some guy sitting beside me seems like his eyes are about to pop out of his head. He does not even know how creepy and wrong this behavior is. This man has lost the girl in less than 5 seconds of behaving this way, without him even realizing what he did wrong.
This behavior says a lot to a girl without you, as a man, even saying a single word. One of the many reasons most men take whatever they can get.
Body language is something that both young men and older men should improve on. Guys assume I use an ABC pickup line every time I have excellent luck with the opposite gender. “What did you tell her?” they ask. Women are hypersensitive to body language, and when men act creepy, everything else about them becomes irrelevant.
There are no magical phrases or words. I never use pickup lines; I just talk to girls the same way I would to another man. I became extremely sensitive to their tones, and body language, and I become very observant, and so on. Depending on how the female behaves, I either go ahead with my approach or, with a big smile on my face, I rapidly withdraw myself from her sight.
At the same time, we must remember that approaching a female might be quite difficult in some nations. In the West, approaching females is often more welcoming and accepted, unless that nation has men who throw themselves at girls and are available for a female’s attention at any time.
When a guy sees a gorgeous female with an average-looking guy, his first thought is usually “That guy has money.” This is an inexperienced man’s cognitive process, and it is untrue!
When an average-looking guy gets a highly attractive female, it is because he did not try extremely hard to impress her. And it is always the female that displays the most interest in him at first. Because simply that man didn’t drool over her, and his body language was natural or very casual.
Put yourself in the shoes of a stunning 20- or 25-year-old girl, who’s a 9 or a 10. Consider what she goes through.
Men would gaze at her body, hard, too long, stare at her, or give weird, repetitive, and cheesy compliments endlessly.
“You’re a hottie!” “You’re incredible!” “How long have you been single?” and so on.
Those men with their endless cheesy comments on social media pages are inundated with compliments. And it typically gets worse from there.
Here are some examples of what the ordinary man should not do:
- Men yell at the girls (Catcall) as she/they walk past and then yell praising statements. This is one of the most important things a man should never do! (Ladies may perceive it differently.)
- If you wish to talk to a female and she seems uninterested, you should cut your losses and leave as soon as possible.
- Don’t approach a female and ask for a kiss or a hug. Men interpret body language rather than asking for permission.
- Don’t request any social media. If she says, “This is my Facebook or Instagram,” etc., tell her, “No thanks” and leave. She’s not interested in you.
Meanwhile, here are a few things that the man should do as much as possible:
- You do not want to be one of those men who go for any girl that shows her the smallest interest and desperately hangs out with her! You want to stand out from the crowd.
- Work on your tone language and how you speak, get rid of “AAAAA UHMM well… you know.. So… AAH,” and so on.
- Remember the question-and-answer format of dialogue. If you are doing most of the talking, remove yourself and leave because she is disinterested!
- If you are online and all her responses are just one word, you can call her out on her poor conversationalist skills or stop talking to her.
Desperation is not appealing!
Many men may push themselves to the extreme when it comes to a stunning female.
Men must learn to say “NO!”/”I’m fine”/”I’m not interested” and so on.
We have all the time in the world as males to reject a rude, gorgeous female.
Men need to learn the word “NO” when it comes to attractive girls.
Most men use their worst approaches to try and get an incredibly attractive girl.
Do not copy her interest in hopes of making her like you.
Nice guys are boring!
Attractive women seek a man who is a winner! Who has confidence and will not comply with all her demands.
Take note of your sense of fashion and keep it clean! This may seem self-evident, but it is surprising how few men care about how they dress.
Girls put a lot of effort into their appearances. They want a guy who is conscious of his personal style. They do not have to wear high-brand clothing. However, familiarize yourself with various outfit combinations.
Men look to entice her with material things and then, later on, refer to her as a “gold digger.” She is not a swindler. You would take gold if someone gave you some, right? Do not give her something you don’t want her to take.
If you are a successful man, do not tell her how many condominiums, houses, and so on your own. Yes, you have them! Keep things to yourself and let her discover them for herself.
If you willingly pay for everything for a girl, that’s your own choice. Then you should not be complaining about women wanting you for your money.
Do not be too kind. Maintain your normality. Most males lie to girls and go out of their way for them in the hopes that they will not come across as disagreeable. And most guys will never say “NO” and/or will simply endure her contempt towards them.
Attractive women want honest men. You shouldn’t be a yes man in hopes that she will like you. Depending on how you respond to her, the less you care about losing her, the more likely it is that you will succeed.
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